Post by account_disabled on Feb 20, 2018 3:55:39 GMT -5
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"I think the kids will be best off if they trade off one week with me and one with Carol, but she thinks for their stability, they should primarily live at her home, where they have grown up, and then just stay with me on weekends, half of the holidays and half of the summer. I hate that concept."
"John just doesn't know what children need; he has never been with them 24/7 because his career just was too important and time-consuming. Candidly, I am worried about him having them so much; I suspect they will just be handed off to a babysitter most of the time," Carol suggested.
Who is wrong and who is right? As is in the case with many couples, the truth is in between. The best answer for all concerned - both parents and the children - is to find an arrangement for their care that best meets their needs. And that answer can only be found when everyone gets their issues on the table, addresses them objectively, and comes up with a plan.
In the world of child custody, that plan is known as a parenting plan. A parenting plan is negotiated between the parents and their legal counsel and then is approved by the court in defining the custody arrangements.
Parenting plans help define the new world in which the children will live and operate and carefully define the roles of each parent.
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"I think the kids will be best off if they trade off one week with me and one with Carol, but she thinks for their stability, they should primarily live at her home, where they have grown up, and then just stay with me on weekends, half of the holidays and half of the summer. I hate that concept."
"John just doesn't know what children need; he has never been with them 24/7 because his career just was too important and time-consuming. Candidly, I am worried about him having them so much; I suspect they will just be handed off to a babysitter most of the time," Carol suggested.
Who is wrong and who is right? As is in the case with many couples, the truth is in between. The best answer for all concerned - both parents and the children - is to find an arrangement for their care that best meets their needs. And that answer can only be found when everyone gets their issues on the table, addresses them objectively, and comes up with a plan.
In the world of child custody, that plan is known as a parenting plan. A parenting plan is negotiated between the parents and their legal counsel and then is approved by the court in defining the custody arrangements.
Parenting plans help define the new world in which the children will live and operate and carefully define the roles of each parent.
For More Details
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